Mailbox Response

The question was submitted Sunday, 3 January 2010

Subject: violence

on xmas my household became to much for my husband with fld to cope, he become violent and had a black out. now all he does is say sorry. with the help of a friend i got him to make a dr appointment he would not let me attend. he did not inform the dr of his violence or blackout. should i inform the dr when by phone so that he is aware at where he is at?
laurel

Answer from DementiaNet

You should inform your husband’s doctor as this altered behaviour is presumably related to his medical condition. If the doctor is aware of this then appropriate action can be taken to help both of you.

Even though this could be  construed as a breach of confidentiality, in the context of a serious medical condition and potential for harm, it is necessary for you to talk to the doctor.

The answer was published on DementiaNet Tuesday, 12 January 2010