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About my Dad - his early years

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Written by yve 30. Sep 2007 03:45 PM

I'll start this diary by telling you about my Dad. Dad was born in July 1937 in Melbourne, Victoria. His Dad went away to fight in WW2 so for the first few years of his life it was just his Mum and older sister. He lived with his grandmother in Glenhuntly. He was a very smart child and was placed 2 grades ahead at school. Of course this meant he was a lot smaller then the boys in his grade and that caused problems - he learnt to run fast.
At the age of 11 his parents sent him to St. Bedes boarding school, they by then had moved to Riddells Creek having bought a parcel of land under the returned soldiers settlement plan. Dad hated life at the boarding school, the boys were a lot bigger then him although he was intellectually the same.
He acquired a hate of meat loaf, cauliflower and a few other foods at his time there. What he most remembers about his time there is always being hungry. He only ever returned home in the holidays. He had to catch a train into the city then a country train to his home all by himself. You could say he learnt to be quite independant and resilient at such a young age. I couldn't imagine letting my kids do that!!
After he left school he had a job at a grocery store.
When he turned 19 he applied for and was accepted into the police force.
Dad met Mum at a local dance. Mum was 17 at the time but had been working since she was 15 at the Grain Store in Melbourne commuting everyday by train from her home in Diggers Rest. I guess you could say it was love at first sight because they have been inseparable since and celebrated their 47th wedding anniversary this year. They have 8 children and 29 grandchildren

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Comments from the community:

Hi Yve
I can't seem to catch up with you on the chat board but have read your story and what a story. Your Dad has a fantastic life ... LBD apart.

I'm interested to know how come his dr didnt give him Exelon or Aricept before now? And have you read the Boeve continuum on the LBDA...its packed full of great information regarding progressive treatment. I printed it off and sent it along too Mama's dr before her app in July and he greatfully received it and has gone along with the suggested meds so far.

You've read EricSEA's posts and he gives fantastic advice and was the one who pointed out the Provigil to us which Mama now takes. It's a stimulant and wakes them completely during the day, instead of them remaining in some kind of sleep/wake state (but doesn't keep them awake at night). The delusional thoughts are thought to come from not being able to differentiate between what they've dreamt and what's actual...really complex stuff but read the paper, its quite heavy so needs time and several readings but your Dad's dr should understand it. Try him we were surprised at the positive response we received.

Good Luck
Dawn
ps It will help enormously with the 20 hour sleeping.

Written by MamaFMIL, 2. Oct 2007 01:57 AM

Thanks Dawn
I'm definetly going to show Dad's doctor Dr Boeve's continuum. Dad's Dr doesn't seem to be up-to-date with treatments for Lewy Bodies. We have just started getting help from Aged-Pyschiatry who had Dad's Dr prescribe seroquel but he is having a bad reaction.
He has now gone from sleeping 20 hours a day to ranting and raving non-stop. We have decided to stop the seroquel and find something else. Mum is exhausted and I feel totally hopeless, I just want Dad to be better.
We want his hallucinations to go away or even get to a point where they don't bother him. He sees people, children and animals everywhere and wants the man at the end of his bed to go away. So do I. He thinks Mum is two different people. ericSEA has a great wealth of information. I suggested a stimulate to the pyschiatric nurse last wednesday and she didn't think this was a good idea (she might not know about it) but I'll show her the info on it and get her to give it to the pyschiatric doctor.
Thanks so much for your concern its wonderful to have people all over the world to talk to, it gives us hope.
Yve

Written by yve, 2. Oct 2007 02:41 AM